I know it's hard to move on when you just break up with your girlfriend or boyfriend.
You have been through such a violent situation and you try to forget everything even you can't.
You can't because you still stick with memories that surrounding you and it's picture everything in your mind.
From the beginning of the relationship until the end of it.

It's not easy like ABC or counting number 123 to 10.
But I guess, everything good takes time.
Aku rasa semua orang pernah patah hati tapi takkan sampai nak bunuh diri?
Gila!

Bila aku fikir balik, everything that makes you hurts, will make you stronger. Macam lagu Kelly Clarkson. Tak gitu? Semua benda makan masa, even the Great Wall of China pun takes more than 2000 years to complete. Dan kita tak perlu fikir sangat.

Banyakkan spend time your families and friends.
Luahkan apa yang patut. It's a good thing actually.

Because sometimes, we build a character when we with somebody just because we don't want to show about what we feel right now.
But when we among with friends, we could know the difference of vulnerability in relationships that others have been through and we can share our experience. Isn't it?

Masa tu kita tahu the thing we should do and we shouldn't do.
We need a support.

Dan masa tu kau boleh rasa begitu pantasnya masa sampai rasa sakit tu dah takda.
Magique!

Or maybe you wanted to change something about yourself?
A little bit make-up, different hairstyles, the way you dressing up or the smell of your perfume.
You may think it's like a small action for you to do it, but trust me, it will help.

And don't ever listen to sad songs all the time.
Cheer yourself with something wild. Something that make your head banging when you listen to that song and you don't give a fuck about what people think.

Because you're the one who make yourself happy.
Kan?

And I don't think it's a good idea when, after you break up, you wanted to start a new relationship with someone else.
Because, you just feel lonely and you need somebody to keep up, not because of you're ready or you wanted a good relationship that before.
You hurt, and you need someone to heal it. But you know, that person couldn't fix anything and at the same time you feel anxiety because you scare of the mistakes that your exes did or it's from you. And that relationship could be worse than you think because you trying to keep everything safe but it's will fall apart.